after all , love isn't something easy . I've heard many many many love story .. both good and bad relationship ... some are willing to let go of everything for each other .. some won't even sacrifice a single thing for the relationship to last . some doesn't realize that love is all around them .OPEN YOUR EYES WIDE PLEASE !
Isn't love suppose to be easy ?? Isn't love suppose to be simple ??? But WHY ?? Isn't love suppose to be something special between two person ?? why does old grandma and grandpa are still loving each other till the moment they leaves the world .. but why such romances does't happen now ? is it because of true love doesn't exists anymore or people are too selfish to give love ??
at the moment , i had heard 2 sad stories ..
firstly ... few days ago .. a friend of mine had fall and turn extremely moody .. because of something which had happen to him .. he had been loving a girl but also been rejected a few times. all the girl wanted was just to be a normal friend but if you know what happen between them .. i bet u'll think its more than that .. maybe the girl thinks that what she did was normal for her to do to guy friend but i know its not something normal for that guy . he had sacrifice not to say a lot but enough for a girl that he love . if it isn't enough for the girl , what does she want more ?? the star from the sky ?? all he blame now was his standard of life , wealthiness, his looks , education and almost everything that he can think of . if a girl only love what you have but not who you are , is this what you called love ? all i got to say was to wake up from this dream . i remembered there were once you told me that you are envy that i could stand up again from my pain and to be happy with my life . and i believe that you can do it like me . it wasn't easy but not that difficult . i had gone through the worst moment of my life bravely and so do you !
the other story was my ah ye story ... he was so so so in love few months ago with his gf ... and today i got to know that they just broke up ... i was almost shocked to death ... his problem with his gf was .. her gf's family doesn't allow her to be in a relationship and problem appears in going out and spending time and taking pictures together ... sound familiar to me ... oh ya ... it used to be my problem too but no longer is because i had stand up for it .. this reminds me of my previous relationship ... but this problem wont appear anymore . haha .. hmm .. poor ah ye .. must be sad now... all i could said was she is not the one .. but he is tired to find the one and to be in relationship .. you doesn't need to search for true love but it will come by itself .. the more desperate you are the more difficult things will happen to you ..
maybe its difficult for the both of them now .. but supports from family and friends will heal their wound .. not all but part of it because you yourself need to find ways to heal up the wound ... its painful now .. still bleeding but it will eventually stop bleeding and heal ... and you will find back your happiness .. your wound heal when you are ready to stand up and continue your journey of life .. its okay to fall once for awhile because you will be stronger each and every time ..
so keep everything simple and nice ... all you should do is to wait patiently because if it is yours it will be yours and you will never lose it ... i now i've been repeating this but i believe that its all about fate , but if it doesn't allow then you got to accept the fact that the person is not the right one . i know its easy to say than doing it . i didn't ask you to let go or to give up on love but to appreciate it . all you need to do is to give love as much as possible and it will return to you . ( hehe .. i read this from a book) and i believe its true . LOVE
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